Stuart’s Philosophies

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Entries for the ‘Friendship’ Category

My Pet Dog

I found this old photo of Cookie and decided to post it. I think he’s cute (lolz), and although he’s no longer being taken care of by me, it’s always nice once in a while to look at the photo of this silly dog that loved to chew rags and prance around the house. It’s [...]

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Bad times: It happens to the best of us

I don’t know what it was for Friday the 13th for you, but from what I heard from one of my friends, it was a horrendous experience. I had a quick email that summarized it all, and the root of it sounded like conspiracy and backstabbing to me.
There was a glitch in some paperwork in [...]

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How Difficult Is It To Get A Cab In Singapore?

Well, you know life sucks when you’re drenched in the rain waiting for a cab to show up only to know that you are going to have to pay an extra $4 for calls, right? It seems that most cabs aren’t going to wait around for you to call them - they are also in [...]

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Do you throw away old dreams?

Have you thrown away your old dreams?
When you were little, did you dream of being Superman or Spiderman… and then stopped living in that fascination of being a hero? When you loved someone a long time ago… but just only in your dream, did you stop feeling love for that dream? When you declared you would [...]

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Lunch With Ron Kaufman

I just had a lunch meeting with the dynamic Ron Kaufman who specializes in customer service training. Ron is a high-energy live-wire who thinks at a hundred miles an hour, and is one of the most creative minds I know.
I discovered a number of interesting things related to the power of leverage in this meeting [...]

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Suicide and the Allure of Death

I’m writing this strictly because there are a number of reports about the number of teenagers who are now flirting with the idea of death. I think there’s a certain allure of death, because it appears to be so appealing, and all problems can end there. The problem is this - problems will end, only [...]

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Friendship - The Uncanny Connection #4

As usual, Zora whom I mentioned in my previous post (you can visit her site to get a feel for NLP in a different language… haha) and I have this weird connection. She was reading the pirated version of “Master Your Mind Design Your Destiny” that for some strange reason was translated into Czech and [...]

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The Startling Reality: Individuals versus Teams

I just completed a series of trainings in schools and in corporations that got me thinking – in reality, we are all extremely pampered and lazy individuals, and without an external object of competition, without a group of people pushing us on, we’ll never move forward. This is the reality of goal setting. The truth [...]

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Rules of Living #4: Appreciation

I can’t really emphasize this enough. Appreciation gives the recipient energy, but more importantly, when you give appreciation, that gives you energy. It gives you a moment to think about how much you really know the other person in the first place. For instance, I often write notes to my employees. And if I haven’t, [...]

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Friendship: The Uncanny Connection Part 3

Not too long ago, I was invited to a wedding. My friend, Joash Chee, was getting married. Well, a friend whom I’ve known since I was in Secondary Two, that is. The strange thing is that he remembered me from the invitation list that connected another mutual friend and classmate, Terence Teh, through his wife, [...]

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