Love And Hurt

Someone asked me to elaborate about love and hurt. I suppose I haven’t had the chance to discuss this issue on my blog, so it came as an opportunity for me. I think love (as in romantic love) has interesting definitions – I treat love as a connection that leads two people to blend in many ways than just one.

 

They think the same thoughts, they feel the same feelings, they behave in similar ways that are strangely uncanny, and that builds up the rapport and deepens the connection.

 

I’m almost certain that people who read this description will either believe me 100%, or not believe me at all. It’s a strange feeling that one has with romantic love, time distorts itself very strangely – a minute with that person feels like a microsecond, and a minute away from that person feels like eternity.

 

Hurt in my opinion is a mechanism that helps us understand ourselves. Without hurt, you won’t get feedback, and you won’t know what is important to you. Hurt however can fester. If you don’t learn how to process it you may not be able to learn to become better, but rather regress.

 

If you were hurt by love, perhaps you felt betrayed. But there’s more to you than just a negative feeling.

 

Gain insight!